
You know my family is my most treasured earthly thing ever. I am sure if you asked me this same question 30 years ago, my answer would be different.
 

Proverbs 6:  16 There are six things the Lord hates—
      no, seven things he detests:
 17 haughty eyes,
      a lying tongue,
      hands that kill the innocent,
 18 a heart that plots evil,
      feet that race to do wrong,
 19 a false witness who pours out lies,
      a person who sows discord in a family.
What can you say or about this?